the longer I've known you the less I need to see you because your presence in my life gets much larger. moments with you sustain me for weeks to come. I have other friends too and their moments stay by my side too. I like to be alone with all my friends.
I think this is the opposite of a lot of people, who seem to want to see you more frequently and for longer time periods as they get to know you better over time.
it can be difficult to figure out how to make those friendships work. I see them a lot more than I'd prefer and feel socially out of balance, and they just want to see me more and more.
I've been doing much better with finding and keeping boundaries but it's already been such a long road to understand each other.
this is what it means to be a loner who keeps friends. it's good if you learn how to communicate.